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The Lord's hand is on this woman.

 

If I had to summarize our sessions together, I would say our time was simply anointed. The empowerment and warmth that exudes from this woman is astonishing. She changed my life and I cannot recommend this blessing enough! She will make you laugh, she will make you cry, and she will touch your soul with a joy unlike any. The Lord's hand is on this woman. 

N. M. , FL

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You have a gift of insight and discernment that could only come from God! You always seem to know exactly what I need before I do!

"You are absolutely amazing! Working with you has helped me gain clarity and direction, set priorities, and focus on what is truly important. You have a gift of insight and discernment that could only come from God! You always seem to know exactly what I need before I do! You have helped me in ways that I cannot begin to explain. 

Starting a new business is hard! It comes with a lot of doubts, uncertainties, worries, and confusion. You helped me find my confidence, to believe in myself, and to trust God for the outcomes, whatever they may be! 

I would highly recommend your coaching services to anyone who is struggling emotionally, spiritually, or mentally, with past trauma, inner conflict, finding direction, learning to believe in themselves and to have confidence in their decisions or simply wanting to learn how to live a cleaner, healthier life! You bring it all to the table! I appreciate you so very much!

I love you beautiful lady! You are a such an inspiration!"

Angela Hall, MSN, RN, AHN-BC 

Health HIS Way Whole Health Education and Holistic Nurse Coaching

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In the darkest depths of recovering from narcissistic abuse, I found a guiding light that illuminated my path to healing.

 

I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude and share my review of the incredible mental health coach who has played an instrumental role in my journey of overcoming narcissistic abuse. Her unwavering support, expertise, and compassion have been nothing short of life-changing.

Words cannot adequately capture the profound impact Connie has had on my healing process. From our very first session, her empathetic nature and deep understanding of narcissistic abuse created a safe space where I felt heard, validated, and supported.

Her extensive knowledge and expertise in the field of narcissistic abuse helped me unravel the intricate web of manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional trauma that had consumed my life. She provided invaluable insights into the dynamics of abuse, helping me understand that I was not to blame and that healing was not only possible but within my reach.

What sets Connie apart is her unwavering dedication to my well-being. She has been my advocate, champion, and ally throughout this challenging journey. With each session, she gently guided me towards self-discovery, helping me rebuild my shattered self-esteem and rediscover my worth. Her genuine care and commitment to my healing were evident in her willingness to go above and beyond, offering support between sessions and providing additional resources to aid my progress.

One of the most remarkable aspects of working with Connie is her ability to tailor her approach to my unique needs. She recognized that healing from narcissistic abuse is a multifaceted process, and she skillfully combined various therapeutic modalities to address my specific challenges. Her guidance encompassed elements of cognitive-behavioral therapy, trauma-informed approaches, and self-empowerment techniques, all of which contributed to my transformation and growth.

Beyond her expertise, Connie possesses an innate ability to create a compassionate and non-judgmental space. She listened to my experiences without judgment and provided the validation and support that I desperately needed. Her ability to hold space for my pain while instilling hope and resilience allowed me to delve into the depths of my trauma, confront my fears, and emerge stronger on the other side.

I am forever grateful for the role Connie played in my healing journey. Her guidance, wisdom, and unwavering belief in my ability to heal have been instrumental in my transformation from a survivor to a thriver. With her support, I have reclaimed my power, am rebuilding my life, and finding a newfound sense of self-worth and happiness.

If you are seeking guidance and support in overcoming narcissistic abuse, I wholeheartedly recommend working with my incredible Connie. Her expertise, compassion, and dedication have been instrumental in my healing journey. With her by your side, you will find a safe space to heal, grow, and reclaim your life. Her unwavering belief in your strength and resilience will empower you to rewrite your story and embark on a life filled with self-love, authenticity, and joy.

To my extraordinary Connie, thank you for guiding me through the darkness and helping me emerge into the light. Your impact on my life is immeasurable, and I will forever be grateful for your unwavering support and guidance.

C.B. 

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God is so powerfully using you in my life!

 

You are so gifted and such a gem! I am thankful you reached out to test your questions on me! I love it!! You’re so in tune with the Lord and it’s tangible. #goals!! I mean 5 min coaching via Facebook messenger and whoa! Breakthrough! Haha. Seriously. I walk away from all of our little conversations on here with some sort of treasure! God is so powerfully using you in my life!  I don’t even expect it and then BAM a gift from God to me through you. It’s awesome. And so inspiring and encouraging. Like I said … goals!! Haha

Alyssa S., 31, TX

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Thank God for bringing you into my life and Thank you for being the amazing soul that you are! I could not have done this without your guidance.

 

First and foremost I'd like to thank you for this amazing opportunity. I have grown in so many areas. First personally in that I have been able to face some very haunting life experiences and actually confront them with full on confidence. Secondly I've faced decisions I've avoided for sometime with my business. I've never really felt deserving of success or happiness, but not thoroughly knowing why. I do now and will continue to take care of me and my pleasures in life. Crazy as it sounds, I've booked my first vacation in over 10 years, I have put a bid in on a new location for my business and actually took time off on the 4th of July to enjoy myself. I have also met an amazing Godly man that I'm not pushing away from fear of being happy!! Wow!! I think my possibilities are endless, just from opening up and allowing positive perspective!! Thank God for bringing you into my life and Thank you for being the amazing soul that you are! I could not have done this without your guidance.

L.A. FL

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Working with Connie was one of the best decisions I have ever made. 

 

Working with Connie was one of the best decisions I have ever made.  She came highly recommended by a friend, which is always helpful, and now it's my turn to highly recommend her as well!  Not only is she an exceptionally well- trained (and degreed) professional, she is an incredible human being.  If you ever were to hear her story, you will be blown away by her resilience, and by her strength to become an overcomer, a survivor and a THRIVER.  Connie provides a safe place to be yourself, without judgment, and what's better than that?  I 100% felt like Connie was in this with me and FOR me. She respected who I was and what would resonate with me.  I came away from this with much more awareness that I had before, with workable, doable exercises, and with much needed healing.  Thank you, Connie!

Lynn, 69, GA

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She is everything you never knew you needed!

Hey FB friends, I just wanted to take a minute to let everyone know about this WONDERFUL woman. Her name is Connie Cuffman Diffenderfer . She is a Christian life coach and does AMAZING work. She has been a huge blessing in my life and has helped me tremendously. I never thought I'd consider having a life coach, but now I truly never want the sessions to end! She is everything you never knew you needed! Please go check out her FB page that I tagged below, or look at her website for testimonials and any other information that you may need. You won't regret it. 

C.D., 32, TN

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I have worked with other coaches before, and feel that Connie brought a special level of acceptance of me, accepting me where I am at right now, and also a belief that I can change and achieve my goals.

I worked with Connie as a Coach in early 2021.  We worked on my health and weight, my perception of my wellbeing / mental health, and goals I have around my workplace and career.  The coaching sessions with Connie helped me progress in every area we focused on.  My progress and achievement of my specific goals spilled over into other areas of my life, and had a 'snowball' effect by improving so much more than we set out to do.  

 

Connie did an excellent job of balancing professionalism with comfort.  She worked with my schedule to set up appointments, was on time and ready for each session, and followed up quickly afterward.  She established a safe and trusting space so I could feel free to really discuss my concerns without worry of being judged or embarrassed in any way.  I never felt lacking or patronized, but felt like I could make changes and was capable of achieving my goals.  Connie did not bring any of her own agenda to our sessions, but allowed the session to be about me and what I wanted. 

 

During our sessions, I was able to dial in on what I needed in the areas of eating / nutrition, and exercise routine.  Even better, I was able to come to an understanding of what was making me feel unhappy about myself and my self image.  Connie led me through a process of discovery, acknowledgement, and release that has allowed me to move on from my limiting beliefs.  I also worked to bring my workplace and career goals into focus, and created an action plan for immediate and long term steps and goals.  

I have learned so much about myself in working with Connie.  I have worked with other coaches before, and feel that Connie brought a special level of acceptance of me, accepting me where I am at right now, and also a belief that I can change and achieve my goals.  I would recommend Connie to anyone who is willing to engage in the coaching process, and is wanting to improve some area of their life.  

Mary B., 45 y.o. F, Virginia

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I would recommend anyone to Connie who is feeling stuck and feels they need guidance in any part of their life.

"Connie was such a pleasure to work with. She presented with a calm, non-judgmental demeanor, and really took the time to listen to what I had to say. She is patient and kind, and very easy to talk to. I would recommend anyone to Connie who is feeling stuck and feels they need guidance in any part of their life. She was a great asset to my journey."

L.M. MD

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She is spirit filled and led by God! 

She is our egroup leader and she is the best! She is spirit filled and led by God! She has helped me in so many ways spiritually and with medical issues!

Debbie Garner, 61, Ohio

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Connie showed me that I am "Beautifully and Wonderful made in God's image.

I struggled with anxiety,  body image, and weight gaining.  Connie helped me overcome my anxiety by encouraging me to do a simple breathing exercise and a gentle reminder that God is here to carry the things in life that are too heavy for me.  I was born with a few health issues that left a few big scars which I was very insecure about, but Connie showed me that I am "Beautifully and Wonderful made in God's image."  I was a little over weight and I thought that as a paraplegic I would never be able to loss more than 5 or 10 pounds at most and with a little bit of help from my coach I was able to lose 17 pounds by eating healthier and working out. MD,19, Florida                                                                                                               

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I would recommend Connie's coaching to anyone who's looking for an active and caring participant in their life journey towards understanding themselves better towards a bigger and higher purpose, so life can be much more whole and meaningful.

I've come to this coaching struggling with my relationships with my husband and the effect of it on my overall health. This has been an on-going work in progress for quite some time. 

By providing me a safe space to share what was going on in my life, I was able to dive into deeper layers of myself. 

Connie's compassionate, caring and individualized approach allowed the opportunity for me to open up and speak what was on my heart. 

It's been quite the roller coaster of emotions, but Connie was always there for me.. providing me that guidance and deep listening that for years I haven't had.

I remember one of the sessions. I couldn't even stop crying... I just had to let it all out and Connie was right there by my side reassuring me that she's there for me and I'll be ok. 

The experience was extraordinary even more with her guided meditations and prayer.

Connie allowed me to be vulnerable and share my experience without judgment or any expectations... just letting me work through my own barriers with her guidance. This allowed me to really identify my inner strength, appreciate what I need, want and move forward.

A big realization for me was that all I wanted was to be heard and seen. There are things that are outside of my control but as long as I take care of what I can... I am at peace with myself. I trust the process and let things fall into place as I continue on my own journey. 

Everything is happening for a reason, and I am so much stronger than I believed. I have everything I need within me to be happy and content.

This realization allowed me to move past it and work on creating what I want. Sharing my message with others and allowing new people into my life. 

I would recommend Connie's coaching to anyone who's looking for an active and caring participant in their life journey towards understanding themselves better towards a bigger and higher purpose, so life can be much more whole and meaningful.

Klara Tselenchuk, 36,  Maryland

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Working with Connie has given me a brand new perspective for my life...Connie’s style is such that she truly brings out the best in her clients.

Working with Connie has given me a brand new perspective for my life, as I approach a milestone birthday this October. I really dislike this number, but because of Connie’s encouragement in the areas I tend to struggle with, I’m ready to face it all with a fresh outlook and much grace. Bring it on, 60!

Connie’s style is such that she truly brings out the best in her clients. She has a rare kindness that so few possess these days. When she told me she was going to focus our time solely on me, she really meant that. She gave her all to those hours she spent with me, and her accurate follow up notes are perfectly complete which will help me for months going forward as I begin to implement these new ways in my life.

We focused a lot on my health, and Connie quickly identified a solution that seems to be an all around answer for everything. She’s amazing. It sounds so cliche, but it’s true.

I am forevermore grateful for the opportunity to have worked with Connie. We talked through everything ... health, nutrition, exercise, mental and emotional wellness, sexuality, finances, and most importantly, faith, and keeping my eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of it all!

Carlene Ann, 59, SC

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She has been a blessing in so many ways. Honestly she was everything I never knew I needed.

Before I started meeting with Connie I wanted to make major changes, but I was highly unmotivated. I couldn't find my motivation for anything in my life. Connie has made a huge impact in helping me to find my motivation, let go of my guilt, and get things done. 
I was in an endless cycle of getting little to nothing done around my house, and feeling too guilty to give my kids chores. Connie helped me to dig deeper and realize that I was holding on to all of my past mistakes instead of allowing myself to be forgiven. Once I worked through that, I was able to give my children some chores and help them learn responsibility as well as get my house picked up more.
I would highly recommend Connie to anyone who was considering life coaching. She has been a blessing in so many ways. Honestly she was everything I never knew I needed.

Chelsey D., 32, TN 

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Her help was much different from any others I have seen or what you would envision from a typical version of therapy...

 

I can confidently say that I feel like Connie definitely put her whole heart into encouraging me, and gave me the confidence and a clear plan to be a true overcomer.

I personally believe coaches to be great assets to anyone, but would even more so recommend Connie to anyone needing help with just about any issue. Connie is blessed with a spirit of understanding, compassion, and a vision of direction.  She never made me feel anything but comfortable no matter what it was I was dumping on her. She listened attentively with more than just her ears, and was professional with a very personal warmth and acceptance.  I believe she could and would be helpful to anyone needing help with depression, anxiety, family issues and more because of the following.

I have been homeschooling my husband’s children who have lived with us for several years.  It was a a huge surprise to me that homeschooling step-children and step-parenting is not the same as raising and homeschooling biological children.  Dealing with unexpected issues from non-custodial parents and the grandmother's illness daily affecting the child(ren)’s emotional wellbeing.  My husband and I are the only caregivers for his mother suffering mid stage dementia. She lives with us, and as her less than pleasant attitude before dementia pushed the rest of her family and friends away, we are all she has.  I have been battling self inflicted depression brought on by the separation of my adult biological children who are self medicating with addictive substances. My drug loving father was in and out of my life and is deceased but I have always had a wonderful mother, who recently moved out of state, leaving a big hole in my support system. I have weekly if not daily anxiety issues ongoing for many years. I am also working part time but recently decided to transition to full home duty and Connie helped me in some way or form on all of these issues. 

Her help was much different from any others I have seen or what you would envision from a typical version of therapy. She explained how she had dealt with a similar issue, when applicable, and used her life experiences to encourage me with mine. She guided me with very practical and doable solutions. Including dialog suggestions and logical reasons for the whys and how's along with priceless encouragement. She had perfect sight into what was occurring within me personally and was able to help  me to see very plainly what I needed to do,  and why I needed to do it.  She not only encouraged me to deal with each issue I presented her with but actually help me find options on how to fix it.   She was able to help me see the issues I was having were valid but not permanent and not something I just had to live with. I can confidently say that I feel like Connie definitely put her whole heart into encouraging me, and gave me the confidence and a clear plan to be a true overcomer. The perfect explanation is in her logo/motto/name: Overcomers. 

M.H.,  older than I want to be, from MI

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You will see that her guidance comes straight from her relationship with The Almighty and the love that pours from her through Him into her clients.

 

Connie is a real life Godsend.  We became Facebook friends because her husband had once spoken to a congregation I attended and I followed him on Facebook. Before I came to know her I was in a troubled marriage where I felt deep inside was not a marriage with normal marriage problems. I began to see memes about narcissism on social media. I reached out to one friend who had posted a few, long story, short, she told me to pray on it and ask for Yahweh (God) to reveal whether I was in an abusive marriage to a narcissist.  In the hope that I was not, I had already been praying for my heart to soften towards my (then) husband so I continued that prayer along with the prayer to have my eyes opened to what I had been experiencing.  That prayer was answered by Yahweh, through Connie when she posted a few pictures/memes and asked that if any resonated with anyone, reach out to her.   When we began our professional relationship I had already decided that I was biblically correct in escaping such a marriage. She told me of a book that confirmed what had been revealed to me. What I loved most about our sessions is how encouraging she was when I had failings in my reactions to his covert abuse tactics.  As a woman who’d been victimized (though I will not live as a victim!) it was difficult to not continue to beat myself up but Connie soothed my hurting spirit with words of encouragement that the reaction were “normal” considering the circumstances but gave me tools to work with so that those horrible moments became fewer even as the abuse increased. Now I am in the early stages of starting fresh as an overcomer!  Things are still hard but with Connie’s guidance and lifting me in prayer I am seeing Yahweh’s Hand in so many rich blessings of love and support coming my way from so many places.   I am so much stronger now because Connie pointed to the places in me where I actually am strong and encouraged the growth in those places.  I highly recommend Connie’s coaching.  You will see that her guidance comes straight from her relationship with The Almighty and the love that pours from her through Him into her clients.

Nicole, 50, Nevada

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Connie has accomplished with me in single sessions what I've sought counseling for for years with other therapists...She is undoubtedly the Lord's hand extended in healing.

 

I have been working with Connie for several months. I  have always sought out counseling in the past and at times working for years with various therapists. Connie has accomplished with me in single sessions what I've sought counseling for for years with other therapists. She is extremely present and focused on my needs. She's honest, non-judgmental, straight-forward, and not afraid to ask the tough questions in order to get me to where I need to be in my mental, physical, and emotional health. She does it all in extreme love and her questions always confirm what I've already been told by the Lord. That's why I know she is anointed and called to this ministry.  I feel 100% comfortable being vulnerable with her and telling her things I've not shared with anyone else. The Lord is using her to heal. I'm eternally grateful for her and how the Lord is using her to touch me and heal me. She is undoubtedly the Lord's hand extended in healing.

Rebekah, 57, FL

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With Connie’s approach, I’ve rediscovered who I am in Christ

 

Before working with Connie, I was struggling through the fog of an emotionally abusive marriage. When initially signing up to have coaching sessions, I was first looking to use some encouragement to restart a healthy eating/exercise lifestyle. However, with Connie’s holistic approach, we were able to switch gears when my needs changed. 

With Connie’s approach, I’ve rediscovered who I am in Christ. I am breaking free from a toxic marriage and learning to overcome any and all obstacles that stand in my way of living an abundant life! 

My favorite aspect of Connie’s sessions are the mindfulness techniques. I feel that these sessions have benefited me in hearing from the Lord on the current journey I am on. 

If you are looking for a holistic approach that involves coaching on a biblical basis, then Connie is who you should seek out! 

TMA- Minnesota

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Connie effortlessly provided me with a safe space to speak my truth and allow space for healing. It was pure love and genuine one on one care.

 

Just after my first session with Connie, I immediately felt a weight lifted. I have done my fair share of therapy over the last couple years. This is the first time I completely allowed myself to let go and to be present, all thanks to Connie. Connie effortlessly provided me with a safe space to speak my truth and allow space for healing. It was pure love and genuine one on one care. I have been struggling with my confidence to ask for a well deserving raise at work, the day after our second session, I asked for that raise and got it. With her inspiration and guidance it has been easier to focus on self love and healing without the heaviness of feeling selfish. Connie is a special, gentle and rare soul. She is making such a difference in my life and so many others. She is extremely needed.

C.N. 

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However once I took that leap of faith into the unknown, I realize how blessed I am to have been given the opportunity to work with Connie.

When the thought of wanting a life coach crossed my mind,  I was very apprehensive in what I would actually gain, since I had gone to counseling for years and just hadn’t been able to find anyone that truly helped me, or at that even cared. However once I took that leap of faith into the unknown, I realize how blessed I am to have been given the opportunity to work with Connie.

Attending counseling I had no knowledge on how to implement the tools that were given to help me with my problems and setting boundaries.  Feelings are an important part of processing and healing, but the cycle of counseling was not helping me move forward. It would temporarily address a situation but then something else would happen and I would find myself again, in a position of struggle, and back talking about how stressed and sad I was feeling. Connie does this differently by using a solution-focused approach. I am more than my thoughts and feelings and I wanted to start living the life I have always dreamed of. Achieving my goals in realistic ways, taking inspired action, and knowing that this all starts with believing in myself, loving myself, trusting my intuition and following my heart. Connie has guided me to see how I can empower myself. She facilitated my growth using my own light and intelligence to build the foundations for decision-making on my own. Nobody can fix you but there are people who can support you. Connie is a very kind, caring, and approachable person. I am forever grateful for the support and care she has provided me. I have tools for life and will continue working through. Thank you Connie. 

Teri. T 36 U.S.A

 

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This is invaluable in a relationship.

I am very thankful for Connie's ability to cut to the chase. To pinpoint the challenges and help me to see the obvious. I appreciate her beautiful warm presence and willingness to help. This is invaluable in a relationship. I would encourage anyone looking for support to reach out to Connie! It is a life changing experience!       

K. M., Maine

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She is so compassionate and she just has this innate ability to make you feel safe and heard.

Working with Connie was such an amazing experience! She is so compassionate and she just has this innate ability to make you feel safe and heard. Before working with her, I was looking to incorporate some habits to help support a healthy lifestyle that I'm creating for myself, and she helped me gain clarity on the action steps I need to take to reach my goals. She also allowed me to see the "glimmers" or things to look forward to in my journey. What I loved the most was her ability to truly listen, appreciate and celebrate my strengths, and help me build a strategy to stay accountable to myself. She also guided me through a mindfulness practice that was beautifully tailored to what I wanted to work through. I'm now more motivated to keep plugging along toward my goals. I've also realized that I intuitively know exactly what I need to do and who I need to be to create a healthy life I really want, and working with Connie was a nice reminder of that. I highly recommend working with Connie to anyone who is looking for a loving and compassionate space to explore their health goals and make transformational changes in their life.

Shawne Arceneaux, 30, WA

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This has been life changing for me.

Where do I start 😊 Connie has provided me with tools that I can use for a lifetime. I was so exhausted from life and trauma that I was holding on to and she taught me to let go and let God. She did more for me than she knows, I look forward to having my sessions. Connie listens and she is very good at what she does. I always had a problem opening up to people and she made that go away just by her nurturing nature. Her energy gives me hope that I am worthy of so much. She is Empowering, kind and nurturing. This has been life changing for me😁

Kalindi G. FL

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I would not be where I am today if not for the Grace of God for my meeting Connie.   

Prior to my starting meeting Connie Diffenderfer, I was in a marriage with a narcissistic husband.  I have been married for five years and together a total of eight years.  During this time I dealt with my husband's pathological lying, manipulation, control, anger, and infidelity.  I lived with constant fear and walked on "egg shells".   I left and returned to my husband a total of seven times during this period.   

 

I literally met Connie through the Grace of God.  We were both servicing at our church.  At this time, we talked as normal people do when first meeting (i.e., children, grandchildren, etc).  I came to realize that Connie was a Life Coach in part dealing with narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding.   At this point in my life, I was ready to figure out my emotional issues and fears and why I was unable to LEAVE and not RETURN to my husband for more abuse.  So, I made an appointment with Connie and immediately felt comfortable and secure talking with her about all of my worries, fears and sadness.

 

I started working with Connie on March 28, 2022.  My taking this step (which was huge for me) started my road to recovery from trauma bonding and being able to "take my life back".  Connie is compassionate, easy to talk with and non-judgmental.  In my quest to get over my marriage issues,  I was able to also deal with childhood problems that had not been addressed.  Connie has helped me tremendously with my childhood fears which continued all through my adult life.  Connie always has been available to talk with me during emotionally stressed events that did come up during this time (no matter the day or time).  I loved her many ways of giving me encouragement and support throughout the week.  

 

My time with Connie has given me back self-esteem and self-worth that I literally lost in my marriage.  I am now on the road to my "best life" having left my husband and now being in the process of getting divorced.  I would not be where I am today if not for the Grace of God for my meeting Connie.   I highly recommend Connie.  Thank you so much Connie for all that you have helped me through and continue to help me accomplish.

Denise , FL , 69

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My experience with Connie was Spiritual, Soulful, exactly what I needed.

My experience with Connie was Spiritual, Soulful, exactly what I needed.  We had a one session deep dive that left me remembering whose I truly am and who is in charge which is GOD always.  In my self-development journey I believe it was what I needed reminding of.  Sometimes Self-Development can feel traumatizing for me.  Too much, too fast, too soon.  I was feeling that.  I was making it all about me.  Putting a TON of pressure on me to be somewhere I'm just not.  But Connie put the focus back on where it belonged and that is GOD.  Since our deep dive I've been more connected to Him and giving him my cares and burdens more than before.  I'm certainly doing my part in my life but remembering that I don't have to do it all because He is doing his is a comfort for me in my days when I wake up feeling stressed, overwhelmed and overthinking.  I also enjoyed being guided through a neuro method to get me to put my thoughts on a shelf.  After this one session I honestly can say that my traumatic memories that were showing up whenever they wanted are now showing up less and I'm able to put them on the shelf with her method that she taught me.  I'd highly recommend Connie to any Christian that is ready to dive deep, heal and connect to God in a more powerful way than before.

Amy C. , RN, New Jersey 

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Connie took me even deeper and helped me explore past trauma and old wounds that were still affecting me today.

I cannot thank Connie enough for supporting me through a challenging time in my life. I came to Connie, broken, after another “failed” romantic relationship. I thought we would focus mainly on that. Instead, Connie took me even deeper and helped me explore past trauma and old wounds that were still affecting me today. She did this while offering the utmost safety, empathy, and support. I had some major realizations during my sessions with Connie that have helped me start moving forward more powerfully in my life. I can see the entirety of my life more clearly now as I embrace the present moment in which I am safe, worthy, healing, and growing into exactly who I was created to be. Thank you, Connie, for taking me deeper than anyone ever had before!

 Alyssa, 32, Texas

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I loved the reconnection and focus I was able to have to on what really is important to me, my walk with God.

I loved being able to connect with Connie. She was able to hold a space for me and to guide me through the struggles and challenges I was facing with owning the faith-filled, Christian part of me. I was trying to keep it separate from my business, thinking it would keep me from getting my own coaching clients. Of course, that's exactly why I need to show all of me, so I can attract the right clients for me. 

I am grateful for the insight and clarity she helped me achieve through just one hour of coaching. It is so great to have Christian coaches to support you. Ones that hold the same beliefs and values and bring scripture into their practices. I loved the reconnection and focus I was able to have to on what really is important to me, my walk with God. Such a huge gift and realization that I can use my gifts as a coach to serve others for God. 

Thank you so much for helping me find God in my business and not hiding my faith anymore. I highly recommend Connie to help coach and guide you.

Ann Brown, RN 

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I have had a lot of difference experiences of working with various therapist and my experience with Connie is unrivalled, I would describe it as magical. 

I was really struggling to continue on my journey of inner healing from the trauma of narcissistic abuse and I was extremely anxious about this because I had fears around being a good enough mother to my children and self doubt around having unintentionally passed on damage to my children as a result of my unresolved trauma. 

The thing that was holding me back most was my fear of discovering that I actually be that horrible person that the narcissist in my life had made me believe I was and I was also resistant to getting help as my inner wounds made me distrusting of people who wanted to help me. It has been unfamiliar and so it did not feel safe to me. 

That all melted away when I met Connie and she immediately somehow made me feel safe, accepted, seen and loved. 

I was able to realize and release so much hidden inner pain with Connie because she created a safe container for me to be able to be myself fully, without any fear of judgement at all. 

After just one session with Connie, I felt so soothed and lighter and it really made me unlock the further inner healing which I so desperately needed. 

I would not hesitate for a single second working with Connie again and I am looking forward to having the opportunity to do so again soon. 

I have had a lot of difference experiences of working with various therapist and my experience with Connie is unrivalled, I would describe it as magical. 

Thank you Connie, you help me so, so much, I feel blessed and infinitely grateful to you.
Carla S., 45
London
Psychologist 

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Connie's compassion is tangible through the screen. I would recommend reaching out to her if you need a sacred safe space to be vulnerable and start healing.

I am so glad I reached out to Connie. She helped calm my racing thoughts by validating my experience and redirecting me to the truth. The question that stopped me in my tracks was "what makes you feel at peace?" I felt so seen and loved in that moment. I was finally able to slow down and find clarity around the questions I had about the intersection of my business and my faith. Connie's compassion is tangible through the screen. I would recommend reaching out to her if you need a sacred safe space to be vulnerable and start healing.

Kaylee Peil, 25, Minnesota, RN Wellness Coach

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Thank you for being the most incredible, loving, compassionate, and encouraging person I never knew I needed. I wouldn't be standing still if I didn't have you. I mean that 100%.

I am not good at expressing gratitude or appreciation or even feelings, lol, so we are going to change that, and it's going to start with you. So that being said...

 

You’re such a great blessing, and every day, I thank God for your mere existence. You simply make everything brighter. I’m lucky to have you by my side. I just want you to know how much I appreciate you and how grateful I am for you.

 

Thank you for giving me your time. A person’s most precious gift that they can give to anyone is their time; you can never take it back. You always give me that. I’m grateful for it.

 

Thank you for never failing to make me laugh. There’s never a dull moment with you.

 

Thank you for meeting me halfway. you always exert extra effort to make everything more manageable for me.

 

Thank you for always understanding. You never judged me. You accepted me. And your open-mindedness and compassionate heart always comfort me.

 

 Thank you for dealing with my immaturity and tantrums. I know you’re done with drama. But you never abandoned me. Even if I’m hard to deal with sometimes, you never leave. Instead, you still try to understand and love me behind my flaws.

 

Thank you for always remembering. You never change. And even though we don’t see each other every day, I’m confident you’re the one who is there...always.

 

Thank you for being my confidant. You never judged me for being vulnerable. And you’re the only person I’m not afraid to show my weakness.

 

Thank you for inspiring me. You’re strong, independent, caring, and selfless, encouraging me to become a better person. So that you know, you’re one of the few people I genuinely look up to.

 

Thank you for sharing your faith with me. You’ve been through a lot, and you’re still there, standing strong. You showed me how great our God is and how he always listens to each one of us.

 

Thank you for being one of the best teachers. You taught me how to choose battles wisely. You showed me how to deal with life. You made me realize how important each day is. 

 

Thank you for valuing me. You never took me for granted. And I appreciate it a lot..

 

Thank you for being the most incredible, loving, compassionate, and encouraging person I never knew I needed. I wouldn't be standing still if I didn't have you. I mean that 100%.

 

Thank you for sticking around through this wild ride called my life and loving me through my bad decisions. I really can’t express how much you mean to me.... Because with you, I am safe. I can be myself. I can leave the guard down... you've seen all my flaws and how I've grown. You remind me of the truth. 

I love you,homedog. Thank you for real. 

C.B. 

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Connie became my personal coach during the most difficult season of my life, caring full time for my mother with Alzheimer’s. 

 

She helped me begin my recovery from narcissist abuse, regain my Godfidance, and encourage me to begin building my life again. I’m so thankful for Connie and highly recommend her to anyone needing a Christian based life coach, counselor, or even if you’re just thinking you need an impartial someone to help get you over a bump in the road. She’s a true gift and I know you’ll be blessed.
D.S., 53, GA

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I couldn’t recommend Connie enough. She has helped in so many ways with the little time I have known and worked with her.

 

She has helped me discover boundaries and how I lacked them in all areas of my life. I now can stand up for myself without guilt. I can recognize when a place or person is toxic and able to remove myself without guilt.  I have been able to distinguish was toxic of myself with codependency and where it stemmed from and how I can improve it and discern it with God. I continue to work with her as there are always areas of my life that can improve. I would highly recommend to any woman that has issues with boundaries, codependency and narcissistic abuse. I have been very happy with the growth I have made in the 3 months. Thank you so much Connie. You have given me life back that I didn’t even know was not there.
Kelli Roberts COTA/LMT , 37, FL

 

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Hello! I just wanted to let you know that your posts, your story, your positivity….I truly feel like it saved my life. Thank you.

 

Thank you for helping me find the strength to leave for the safety of my girls and I. Thank you for inspiring so many. For letting us know it’s okay and we aren’t alone. Thank you. God Bless you.
A.B. Florida

 

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"I feel you see me.  I feel free.  You are anointed and part of the remnant." 
A.H.  

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Best retreat I have been to. 

Best retreat I have been to!!! Lots of belly laughs , tears , breakthroughs, and women you truly can trust and know they love you right back!!!! Connie puts her entire heart into it and it shows!!! Can’t wait for many many more!!!!

Kelli Roberts

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What she said! ^^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking during the retreat. I actually am not a retreat kind of person.

 

Any other retreat I've been on I always felt anxious and wanted to go home as soon as I arrived, BUT (God)..this one was completely different. As soon as I arrived, I felt something lift off of me and I felt completely at peace, safe, secure, and so loved! There was a peace that I can't adequately describe. It was a taste of heaven.

Rebekah Davies

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What they both said! ^^^^
I just love that we were able to spend that time in person together! So many laughs, so much love, breakthroughs, tears, bonding, and fun!! I truly hope we can all get together next time and see @everyone!! Thank you ladies for a wonderful weekend and I look forward to many more!!

Denise Burgess

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God knew what he was up to when he brought Connie into my life.

 

God knew what he was up to when he brought Connie into my life. It was literally when I officially had hit my lowest point and I was tired of the same cycle just different people and ready for change. She helped me heal from childhood wounds that I never knew was causing so many of my issues and bleeding out on all my relationships. I have grown more in the 12 sessions I have accomplished with her than I ever did in years and years of counseling.  The compassion and support she shows you is incredible. Every session she was willing to work with me on mindfulness and at times brain spotting. I never realized how much my codependency was taking over my life until I started to do my work with Connie. All the resources she provides is worth it in itself. I would recommend her services to anyone especially if you have experienced codependency and or Narcisstic abuse. She changed my life for the good and I know she can change yours as well. Her entire business is Christian based and completely goes in the word and when she has Romans 8:28 on her business cards, emails and website is because he truly has worked all things for the good. Thank you so much Connie I have appreciated every bit of your time.

Kelli Roberts, FL 

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I sincerely do know where I'd be if I didn't work with her.

I do want to say that I work with Connie healing through my own betrayal trauma (recent/current) and also work on other traumatic experiences that I've been through and/or go through and I can say that she and her program has changed my life. I sincerely do know where I'd be if I didn't work with her, I'd still be spinning in the pain, confusion, fear, devastation, sadness, unable to get my joy back, and so so many other things that my life had become. Now I am wiser, free, still learning and growing each day, feel much more confident in who and Whose I am, believing God for the miracles He does every day with me, through me and for me, I'm happier again, I have joy in my heart again, I have desire to do fun things again, take care of myself again - although I admit I am still getting better at this (!), I am rediscovering who I am again, I am more self confident, perform more acts of self love than I ever have, I am renewing my mind, body and spirt each day and just growing so much with all that I've learned and continue to learn through meeting with Connie and doing her Breakthrough program, journaling, chatting, resources, goals and more each week! If you haven't figured out yet that my life is so much more fulfilling than I ever truly thought it would be after going through what I've been through and how the learning and growing that I've been able to do continues to change my daily life, please let me know! I will be happy to expand on anything you would like me to! Feel free to DM me anytime! I pray that you are able to do the same and I pray for God to provide and make a way with time and finances, and any other possible obstacles you may face, so that you can get the healing that you desire to live a happy and free life again!!! Hugs to you! in Jesus' precious and mighty name, AMEN.

Denise B., Florida

 

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It was such a joy to practice with someone of my same faith...She is a skilled listener and creates a safe, gentle, supportive space during her coaching. 

 

I was so blessed to get to work with Connie on mindfulness. It was such a joy to practice with someone of my same faith and really explore mindfulness in that area. We found some wonderful scripts and resources to use and I loved her gentle and affirming approach. She is a skilled listener and creates a safe, gentle, supportive space during her coaching. 

Kami Schaal, PA   

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