There is something deeply broken in a system where the wounded are questioned more than the ones who caused the wounds. If you’ve ever found yourself over-explaining… Trying to prove your pain… Replaying conversations to justify your reality… You’re not crazy—you’ve been conditioned. Abuse—especially emotional, verbal, and psychological—trains you to believe you are the problem. It keeps you in cycles of confusion, self-doubt, and striving for approval that will never come. B

Oftentimes, while good intentioned, we have unknowingly given our power over to a narcissistic spirit out of the desire to be submissive, meek, or nice. We may have found ourselves in a destructive relationship or situationship and have mistakenly thought that the answer was to be nice by submitting to one that feeds off of power, control, and reactions based on manipulation. However, the Word calls us to be Holy, not nice! Bullies don’t change when they are catered to. G

🕊️ “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 If you’ve lived through long seasons of fear, abuse, neglect, or betrayal, you may carry the invisible scars of Complex PTSD — and I want you to know this right now: ✨ There is no shame in that. ✨ There is no judgment here. ✨ You are not broken — you are healing. C-PTSD isn’t a character flaw. It’s not “too much faithlessness” or “not being strong enough.” It’s what happens when the soul has endured

🛑 Recognize it. 🚫 Refuse it. 🙌 Rise above it. Toxic people often cycle through baiting, guilting, and love bombing to control,...