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🔥 Waking Up the Warrior Within 🔥

  • 2 days ago
  • 3 min read

Oftentimes, while good intentioned, we have unknowingly given our power over to a narcissistic spirit out of the desire to be submissive, meek, or nice. We may have found ourselves in a destructive relationship or situationship and have mistakenly thought that the answer was to be nice by submitting to one that feeds off of power, control, and reactions based on manipulation.  


However, the Word calls us to be Holy, not nice!


Bullies don’t change when they are catered to.  


God didn’t call His daughters to be doormats or enablers of dysfunction.He called us to be Ezer Kenegdo — strong, discerning, and courageous women who partner with Him to bring life, truth, and restoration.


For too long, the enemy has used narcissistic and manipulative people to tear down God’s daughters — to silence their voices, confuse their discernment, and drain their spiritual strength. 


But today, it’s time to wake up the warrior inside you. 💪


You are not called to keep the peace at all costs.


You are called to stand in truth, love boldly, and fight for your freedom and family.


The same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you.


It’s time to rise from freeze and fawn — to reconnect your heart, body, and spirit — and walk again in your divine power as a woman of God.


You are not an enabler.


You are an Ezer Kenegdo — the warrior bride of Christ, equipped to protect what is holy, guard your peace, and fulfill your purpose.


What areas of your life do you need to make a stand?  


What areas of your life are you letting people pleasing overrule your obedience to God? 


What areas of your life are you living in fear? 


What areas of your life are you submitting or surrendering to a narcissistic spirit?  


🛡️ Scripture:

“The Lord is a warrior; the Lord is His name.” – Exodus 15:3

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” – Proverbs 31:25


💬 Declaration:

“I am strong in the Lord. I am an Ezer Kenegdo. I am not an enabler. I walk in power, peace, and purpose.  I will not be codependent and a people pleaser.  I will put God first.  Above ALL others.”


🎯 You can’t heal by staying silent.


⚔️  It’s time to wake up the warrior within, set holy boundaries, and walk in your God-given power.




If this applies to you and you need professional support to come alongside you in your healing journey, who has also been there, take that first step by reaching out to me to set up a time to discuss what that would look like and begin your BREAKTHROUGH to taking your life back and become the woman God created you to be. 


Connie Wunderly, BSN, RN, NC-BC, BC-MHC



Board Certified Trauma Informed Nurse Coach

Christian Mental Health Coach (American Academy of Christian Counselors) 

Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist

Certified Somatic Experiencing, Positive Psychology, & Brainspotting Practitioner

Someone Who Has been There and Overcome


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