⚔️“Blessed is she who knows God is her Defender…”⚔️
- overcomerinhim1021
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
Because when God defends you, you don’t have to.
If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, you know this pain well:
🔹 Triangulation – lies passed through others
🔹 Flying monkeys – people manipulated to attack your character
🔹 Bearing false witness – accusations meant to provoke, intimidate, or silence you
But here is the truth that sets Overcomers free:
The Lord is your Defender, your Redeemer, and your Vindicator.
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:14)
🎯Calm is not weakness.
🎯Silence is not guilt.
🎯Distance is not dishonor.
It is discernment.
When we walk with God, we don’t chase rumors or try to convince people who are committed to misunderstanding us. We cling to integrity, knowing that God sees, God knows, and God repays in His perfect timing.
As Overcomers in Him, we choose to:
✔ Walk in truth even when lies circulate
✔ Refuse to engage in chaos, gossip, or spiritual warfare not assigned to us
✔ Protect our children from manipulation, confusion, and generational trauma
✔ Set God-honoring boundaries that guard our peace and our future
✔ Trust the Lord as our Redeemer—restoring what was stolen and rebuilding what was broken
“No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment you shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord.” (Isaiah 54:17)
📢You don’t need revenge.
📢You don’t need validation.
📢You don’t need to explain your healing to those who benefited from your silence.
🛡You are covered.
🛡You are defended.
🛡You are being restored into an abundant life under His protection.
Stay calm.
Stay anchored.
Stay aligned.
God is handling what you cannot—and doing it far better than you ever could.
🕊️ Overcomers don’t react. We rise above!
🙌👊📖🛐💃🙏⚔️🛡🩷
If this applies to you and you need professional support to come alongside you in your healing journey, who has also been there, take that first step by reaching out to me to set up a time to discuss what that would look like and begin your BREAKTHROUGH to taking your life back and become the woman God created you to be.
Connie Wunderly, BSN, RN, NC-BC, BC-MHC
Board Certified Trauma Informed Nurse Coach
Christian Mental Health Coach (American Academy of Christian Counselors)
Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
Certified Somatic Experiencing, Positive Psychology, & Brainspotting Practitioner
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