🚫BOUNDARIES IN RELATIONSHIPS: KNOWING YOUR ABSOLUTES & DEAL BREAKERS🚫
- overcomerinhim1021
- Oct 3, 2025
- 2 min read
One of the biggest lessons we learn—often the hard way—is that boundaries are not just nice to have in relationships; they are essential. Without them, we leave ourselves open to manipulation, emotional exhaustion, and heartbreak.
But what if you could define, with absolute clarity, what you must have in a relationship and what you will not tolerate? 🤔
That’s exactly why I created a Relationship Boundaries Worksheet to help you outline your 5 Absolutes and 5 Deal Breakers.
Why Boundaries Matter
Boundaries are not about control; they are about self-respect. They define what is acceptable in your life and what is not.
When you know your non-negotiables, you won’t waste time on people who disregard them.
Instead, you’ll attract healthier, more fulfilling relationships—whether romantic, friendships, or even family dynamics.
Your 5 Absolutes
These are the core values and behaviors that must be present in any relationship for you to feel safe, valued, and respected. For example:
✅ Mutual respect
✅ Emotional safety
✅ Shared faith and values
✅ Consistent communication
✅ Integrity and honesty
Your 5 Deal Breakers
These are the non-negotiables—things you absolutely will not tolerate. Knowing them helps you recognize red flags early and walk away with confidence. Examples might include:
❌ Lying and deception
❌ Lack of accountability
❌ Emotional or physical abuse
❌ Addiction without willingness to seek help
❌ Disrespect towards you or your children
Get Your Free Copy of the Relationship Boundaries Worksheet!
I’ve put together a simple yet powerful worksheet to help you list out your 5 Absolutes and 5 Deal Breakers. This will give you clarity and confidence in your relationships moving forward.
If you’d like a FREE copy, send me a private message with your email, and I’ll send it straight to your inbox!
Remember: Boundaries are not walls to keep love out—they are gates to ensure the right kind of love comes in. Know your worth, set your standards, and never settle for less than God’s best for you.
Overcomers In Him
⚔️📖💃🛡👊🙌🙏🩷📜🛐
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