I'VE WALKED THROUGH HELL, BUT I DIDN'T STAY THERE!
- overcomerinhim1021

- 6 days ago
- 2 min read

I’ve been that woman.
The one who was:
Abandoned
Rejected
Orphaned
Abused
Falsely accused while I was the one actually being abused
Betrayed by those I only ever loved and helped
Afraid
Confused
Making a poor choice because of a wound from another
Basing my value on body imperfections
Left wondering if I’d ever be enough...
I’ve cried until I threw up.
I’ve laid in bed wondering if anyone even cared.
I’ve watched my children suffer at the hands of someone who was supposed to protect them—while the courts just made it worse.
I’ve buried a son I prayed for for years.
I’ve done press conferences for my mom, who’s been missing since 2004.
I’ve put myself through nursing school as a single mom of 4, while homeschooling two daughters I adopted with severe disabilities—without a parent or sibling to help.
I’ve suffered physical pain for years from a medical injury I didn’t deserve, and I’ve bounced back twice from major health setbacks.
But now?
I’m happier than I’ve ever been.🙌
I have the man who truly loves me & is willing to play down his life for me. 🙌
My children, grandchildren, daughter-in-love, and bonus daughter & son are thriving.🙌
I own the home I dreamed of.🙌
I’m driving the van I waited, saved, and prayed 10 years for.🙌
I've overcome a terminal diagnosis!🙌
And that little girl who once dreamed of being a mother, a nurse, working in psychology, or a writer?
Today, I’m all four!!!🙌🩷
I’ve coached women all over the world to break free, heal, and Overcome in Him.🙌🩷
I’ve walked through hell—but I didn’t stay there.
By God’s grace, I overcame!
🔥 Don’t you dare doubt what our God can do.
🔥 Don’t you dare give up.
🔥 Don’t you dare limit yourself based on your past or pain.
God can work ALL things together for good.
He will take what the enemy meant for evil and use it for glory.
So GET UP.
Put on your armor.
Choose gratefulness.
Fight when you must.
Love always.
Cling to Jesus for dear life.
Cling to HOPE.
💖 You can Overcome in Him.
☕🙏🙌🩷💃👊📖🗡️🛡️
Psalm 46:5
God is within her. She will not fall.
If this applies to you and you need professional support to come alongside you in your healing journey, who has also been there, take that first step by reaching out to me to set up a time to discuss what that would look like and begin your BREAKTHROUGH to taking your life back and become the woman God created you to be.
Connie Wunderly, BSN, RN, NC-BC, BC-MHC
Board Certified Trauma Informed Nurse Coach
Christian Mental Health Coach (American Academy of Christian Counselors)
Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
Certified Somatic Experiencing, Positive Psychology, & Brainspotting Practitioner
Someone Who Has been There and Overcome
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