One of the most subtle — and spiritually dangerous — aspects of narcissistic abuse is how it drains your oil, the anointing and strength God gives you to live, love, parent, grow, and fulfill your purpose. A narcissist does not pour into you… they pull from you.  Sometimes quietly.  Sometimes chaotically.  Always consistently. And that constant drain eventually leaves even the strongest woman running on fumes. 🛢️ They Drain Your Oil Through Daily Chaos Narcissistic individua

Over four years as a single mom and many more years as a "single wife," I’ve walked a road many of you know too well. It’s a path marked by heartbreak, endurance, and, ultimately, healing. Some of my deepest healing from a toxic 23-year marriage came during my time as a single mom, while other pieces of my heart were mended in the midst of a future relationship. Healing from severe complex trauma (C-PTSD) is not a straight line—it’s a journey. A long, messy, and deeply transf

The Lord often teaches us deep truths in the simplest ways. One day while my dog, Izzy, was outside, our neighbor’s dog began barking. Naturally, Izzy joined in, as if she had no choice but to respond. But the Lord gently showed me something: Izzy isn’t less of a protector if she chooses not to bark back—especially when I, her master, am telling her not to. How often do we as believers fall into the same trap? Someone barks at us, triggers us, or tries to bait us into a fight

When we look at narcissism, we must understand it from two perspectives: clinically and Biblically. 🔹 According to the DSM (Diagnostic...

One of the biggest lessons we learn—often the hard way—is that boundaries are not just nice to have in relationships; they are essential....

As Overcomers in Him, we are called to honor our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit. When we neglect our physical, emotional, and...

A toxic man doesn’t just wound the woman he targets — he leaves scars on the children too. When he projects his pain, anger, and...

Why? Because they see her light, her success, her strength — and they crave it. Instead of celebrating her, they seek to conquer and...

Being “too much in your feelings” isn’t just an emotional slump—it’s a distraction from the enemy. When you’re ruled by emotions, you...