Narcissistic men often target strong, successful women.
- overcomerinhim1021
- Aug 23
- 2 min read
Why? Because they see her light, her success, her strength — and they crave it. Instead of celebrating her, they seek to conquer and break her down so they can build themselves up. This is not love; it is control.
📖 “But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy… having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.”
— 2 Timothy 3:1-5
🚩 5 Signs of Narcissistic Love-Bombing:
1. Excessive flattery & attention — feels overwhelming and “too good to be true.”
2. Rushed commitment — pushing for titles, moving in, or marriage very quickly.
3. Mirroring — pretending to like everything you like to gain your trust.
4. Isolation attempts — slowly pulling you away from family, friends, or faith community.
5. Conditional love — their affection fades once control is established.
🙌 5 Things to Do if You’ve Been Through This:
1. Return to God’s truth — anchor your worth in Him, not man’s validation.
2. Set firm boundaries — “No” is a holy word when protecting yourself.
3. Seek safe support — surround yourself with godly, wise people who uplift you.
4. Heal with intention — trauma-informed coaching, prayer, therapy, and somatic healing can restore your identity.
5. Rebuild in Christ — remember: you are not conquered. You are more than a conqueror in Him (Romans 8:37).
💡 Overcomers in Him, your strength is not a weakness — it is a gift from God. Don’t let the enemy use narcissistic tactics to make you doubt it. Stand firm, discern wisely, and keep your heart anchored in Christ.
Ready to have your BREAKTHROUGH and to heal? Message me to learn how. 📨
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